No, I do know - I just didn't know it at the time. The real changes started at least a year ago. I don't know how I missed it, but I did. I started no...icing things when my sex life picked up six months ago, but didn't examine it too closely. I was too busy reveling in my good fortune to question its origins.Of course, I didn't select her for her sexual prowess. She didn't choose me for that either. Believe it or not, we were both virgins when we met in college and our sex life was never what. I wouldn't normally look at these,but today something caught my eye. It was ballet. I was just staring atthe way they danced. It was so graceful. The men wore tights and soldierjackets that looked a bit funny. I wore tights before. I wondered if Icould do ballet and look just as pretty as them on TV. Then Dad startedgetting mad."What is it that you are looking at some puffy faggot Ballet? Is that whatyou think is fun? Do you like looking at men with tights on and actinglike a pack of queers?. I quickly tried to cover up and know i was beat red as i said i lived there and who were you. At this point the porn had turned to fucking and the woman on the tv was screaming loudly and i turned the tv off. This woman said she had stayed there last night and was told she could leave when she got up. She was in her late 40’s brown hair and quite cute. I told her how sorry i was and did not know anyone would be here. She just laughed and thought this was quite the funny. At this point I am. Secondly, you will not be allowed to use the strap again for any offence until I deem you are worthy to do so." Turning to the students he went on, "That doesn't mean you can get away with doing what you like! Paul can appeal to me or to one of the security staff and if we deem it necessary, we will act as his proxy and punish you for him." I didn't want him punished at all with the strap or cane but I supposed David made what he thought was a reasonable compromise and I hoped Paul would think.