"Please."A lounger and two folding chairs were on the porch. When Jean returned from the kitchen, the boys were ensconced in the chairs. She handed th...m their lemonades before reclining on the lounger with her legs tucked under her. She tugged the coverup around her."What's the problem?" she asked."Sex." Sex?" Jean snickered. "Two college studs asking an old married woman for advice about sex? What's this world coming to?" Please don't laugh, Mrs. Brown. It's a real problem for us." Do you. “Mom said that you were really busy with work and did not know if you could get away, but I just knew that you would find a way to be here.” “Well it was not easy,” I said trying not to look directly at him, for fear that I would cry. “You did not really give a lot of notice, generally notice for these types of things are needed.” “Yeah, I know,” he said in a quiet voice, almost as if he was sorry. “We knew that we were rushing, but we just did not want to have a long drawn out engagement.”. "This means Tommy has to go, I'm afraid." Fine, James, I'll do it tonight but," she gave me a puzzled look, "I thought you weren't jealous."I explained that it was not a matter of jealousy. It was simply that her living with a boyfriend meant she might not be available when I wanted her. But I stressed — "and this goes for you, too, Fran" — that there were bound to be times when she knew I would be otherwise occupied and on those occasions I was happy for her to enjoy herself elsewhere. I was,. .. people who don't feel secure in their relationship shouldn't try it. It definitely isn't something you want to do to improve a bad, or less than satisfying relationship. When I conducted some interviews for my research, the more eager partners in the unequal couples delude themselves with the idea that swinging improved their relationship. But I always read the disagreement in their partners' eyes." That doesn't sound reassuring," Dave said uncertainly. "Are you sure Iris and I are ready for.