.and Oh,by the way,they arent going to tell everyone that they were involved,they are going to leave themselves OUT of it!So,the third question,is mor... crucial than you realize,and here it goes....Three) Are you being INVITED by another couple,or other couples, to swing with them??? Are you and/or your wife, being apporached for these things by spouse or another couple? Has another couple SUGGESTED or hinted around that they might be interested in swinging with you and your wife/husband? If. I cried from out side “did jaldi nekalo na mujhe bhi nahana hai”, she told that she want to wash some clothes. I insisted that I have to take a bath and it’s getting late. So she came out. She was looking amazing. She was wet from up and down her hair was on her face her pink lips was wet with dew of water. She came out wearing a white kurta n a 3-4th pajama. Due to transparency I started staring at her boobs. I have never done so. She had a great structure. I can see her tight bra. She told me. I remember at this point, at four dates, I had been surprised at his gentlemanliness and ease. But I was getting restless coming home alone every night and finding my underwear soaked after hot kisses and his gentle hands caressing my body. A girl has needs, and I really hoped his hesitance wasn't because he was a virgin. We had yet to talk that much of our sexual histories. I remember he was on top of me, supported by his elbows. His body pressing against mine, he held my face in his right. .. she leaned closer."So yes, I have put myself in a position to understand. I agree that there is a physical investment of time and some discomfort. I agree that unless you're a person who sees the end result as a prize, it could be considered 'gross." I continued. "At the same time, it's a wonderful expression of love and from my experience, well worth the discomfort."Sue was stunned by my answer. She sipped her wine and looked away as she processed what I'd just told her.She turned back.