The right man must be among them." Maybe," she sniffled, "but with my track record, I don't know how I'd recognize him. But...I'm being rude. I haven'... asked what you've been doing since you came back east." Oh, I've been keeping busy," said Ben. "Been working on plays with a small company working out of a basement theatre in Greenwich Village. It pays almost nothing, and we play to tiny audiences, but we do good work, and it's really stretching me as an actor. I think it'll improve my craft.". I am sure my mother had put the twins up to this; straight away she agreed I could let it grow but she did stipulate that I must wash it regularly, and let Sonia, one of the twins, trim it as necessary to keep it tidy, and of course I agreed. I asked her how long could I let it grow and she replied that, so long as it was tidy I could grow it down my back if I wanted. I was very surprised at how quickly it grew, within a few months it was down to my collar and within a couple of years it grew. 4. Golden Shower >This term is used for urinating on someone (with their consent of course).5. Rimming >Performing oral sex on someone’s anus is called Rimming. ATM is another term for it (Ass to Mouth).6. BangoverWho said only alcohol gives you hangover? That exhausted feeling after a night of wild sex is called bangover!7. Hotdog In A HallwayThis term is used for a woman’s vagina that is too wide to for a man’s penis.8. Bear ClawA vagina with really big lips (labia) is called a bear claw.9.. "About what?" I asked innocently."About why you have to buy a dozen roses for your boyfriend." He smiled. "It couldn't have been me, so... ?" Oh, no. It's nothing." I shook my head."Maybe I can help." Valentine leaned across the table touching my hand. "I know an awful lot about boys, believe me."He had a point there, but I wasn't sure talking to him about my boyfriend was necessarily a good idea. I did have some feelings for Valentine, although I wasn't comfortable with them and I did my best.