My brothers just find me embarrassing. I’m Julie-Ann, by the way.”My ears pricked up. Brothers? That changed everything. I bought her a drink and ...e talked about this and that. She was intelligent, and while that may seem an odd or condescending thing to note, it’s important to me – one of the most attractive things about a woman. Kindness and decency turn me on too. A beautiful, sexily presented woman is one thing, but a nice, smart one is much more appealing.The brothers soon went to bed, but. Can I at least get a pair of high heels out of my car so that I look a bit dressed up?”“How come your high heels are in your car?”“I told you that I broke up wit my ex last night. I collected the most important of my belongings from his place and put them in my car. Then I drove away and slept in my car last night. I could not afford to stay anywhere.”“I hope that you will stay here with me tonight and for the foreseeable future.”“You're just saying that because you want to get into my pants,. And everybody packed up ... we were still sorting and stacking and cleaning and discussing ... I said, "Want to do Germany?"Wendy threw her arms around my neck, kissed me and said, "Oh God, yes." Here now ... I didn't propose. I just wanted to know if you wanted to race Germany." YEEEESSS!" She shouted.I was immediately surrounded by well-wishers, offered cigars and suggestions for "June ... June is traditional," and generally felt I'd said something I didn't.And there wasn't anything I could. .. with her wife ... with an adoption lawyer," she said in a hushed voice, the blush blazing in the intermittent light from the street lights and occasional passing car.I was, to be honest, shocked. Lillian Haverstaam is a handsome woman in her late thirties with the body of a gymnast. It never would have occurred to me that she was gay, never mind had a partner and was trying to adopt a baby. "I ... see," was what slithered out of my usually more controlled mouth in a tone that was almost.