The as I stated the last six months got really weird. There was a week I came home three times to find pizza boxes with half eaten pizza. Once when I ...as early I saw a car leaving with a pizza sign on it but when I felt the pizza it was cold and I found my wife in the shower. She acted like nothing had happen and got dressed. I asked about the pizza frenzy and she answered that she was just craving pizza. I asked if she was pregnant, she just laughed saying "Pregnant, that that puny cock.". I was actually planning on calling you today.’ ‘Oh, right. The holidays….’ He glanced nervously as he watched the receptionist’s grip tighten on the phone receiver. He cleared his throat and said, ‘I just wanted to see how you were….uuummm, I mean, how were your holidays?’ ‘I know that was totally horrid of me not to call you for Christmas, but I figured you must be really busy with a case or something.’ ‘What do you mean?’ Suzy had also noticed Donna was watching them intently and closely. He was delighted with the stockings and panties too, though itwas few days before he built the courage to wear them in front of me.He did report the skirt fitted well, and I didn't begrudge him trying itin secret. I wanted happiness for him, not compulsion.So when he shyly appeared at the living room door wearing a plain,asexual t-shirt, the skirt and stockings it was a moment for both of us.Clothing sends such strong signals about gender identity in our societythat I felt deeply unsettled by. My sister is Sher (she liked the "Cher" pronunciation because, like her famous idol, they were both named Sherrilyn). She was eleven when dad gave me the "speech".Dad was an agnostic and perhaps THAT also had something to do with his not finding another woman. He believed in evolution instead of deities, so when he gave me the facts of life (as HE knew them), I innocently asked him a question that would eat at him for a long time.I asked him why he didn't make Maude his wife if he loved her!He.