I had been keeping a major secret from my wife, Trish, and it was eating me up inside. How do you tell your wife, "I am bisexual and am having an affa...r with a transsexual," with out totally devastating her? The first thing she will feel is inadequate, then anger, and shortly after is probably divorce. I love my wife very dearly and the last thing I want is to loose her. So I devised a plan to keep her, and my transsexual lover, Jenna. This is how I did it...I had been running around for about. I'm more hooked than I've ever been. Yet you're just barely available and I've known you such a short time."She shook her head."It's, overwhelming. So, before I get drawn in any further, I need to know the whole deal. If it's too soon for you, I, I have to back off." Lucky for you, no, lucky for me, you're very special, and you're absolutely captivating. If I wasn't ready to, gee, listen to me. I sound like I'm trying to smooth my way into a business deal. I ought to be grown up enough to tell. ." I wanna be here forever, Alan..." You will be, angel," I said.In a rare event, we didn't even put nightshirts on. I managed to reach over and dowse the bedside lamp and put the room into darkness, and we slid into slumber in one another's arms, completely, utterly satisfied. Several times during the night I awoke a tiny bit to find her and snuggle up with her, noting that when I moved towards her, she moved to meet me.I woke up in the morning when I felt her easing out of bed. I let myself. " She nodded agreement. "At least he's telling you about it instead of hiding it." I watched Rocky as she paced. "Send him an email or call him. Tell him you're not happy with the situation. Tell him you're not gonna sit and wait for him to make up his mind. Tell him either you guys are engaged and exclusive or you're nothing. Or..." Or what?" It was Rocky's turn to prompt me."You could sit back and see what happens. Your choice Rocky; either way I'll be here for you when you need a.