Look at him, cant wait to see you! You have ruined him”! Paula said “shut up Poppa! You're as guilty as me”! She got out and Jim was all over he.... They went inside and she said “MaMa's been busy and needs to sit a while”. Jim said “busy”? She told him that they bought him a vehicle to use on the new 2 sites. He said, “MaMa, I can't drive”? She laughed saying “I'll teach you and Poppa will help”. Jim reached under her dress, she stopped his hand saying “MaMa's been busy there too”! He smiled and. I would change the babies, feed them, then do the washing up and get the washing machine going, make all the beds, do the hoovering, hang out the washing to dry, cleaning, ironing, change and feed the babies before making the dinner for the evening.”“It still sounds a hell of a lot of work.”“You don’t mind when it’s family. It was the non-routine things that would always throw me, though, like not being able to pay the electric bill because there was not enough money in the bank, Dad having. I was beginning to wonder what he was going to say. ‘Yeah, I remember. It was a bad time for me. Too much time away and it was hard on both me and Janet. We fought a lot and we almost broke up. How could I forget that time? It was a real bad deal all around.’ I did remember. We were able to work it out, but it was a close call. Since then, our marriage had just grown stronger. We didn’t talk much about that time. It was too painful for both of us. I had even moved out for a while before we. ..Apologies if this isn't as steamy or filthy as some stories here but it is 100% true and exactly how it all happened and I don't want to spoil the memories by making stuff up or adding things that didn't actually happen!I met Kim in my local pub. I'd seen her around because she lived (and still lives) literally just down the road. I was 27 and she was a 39 year old who had sadly been widowed the year before. She later told me she had lived quite a sheltered housewife and mother kind of life.