The guy I was dating at the time could tell a big difference in a relatively short amount of time as could I. In a few weeks, I went from gagging and ...hoking to deepthroating his dick like a pro. The best advice I can give is to not think specific techniques work the same for everyone. Most information that I have read about deepthroating directs people to relax and straighten their throat because that provides a better "sword swallowing" angle and suppresses the gag reflex. Yes, that can work. She tells me to turn the light off and it gets CAVE BLACK. Can't see your hand in front of your face BLACK. I quickly lay down before I run into anything, and tell her that I would have picked this room too. Its dead silent for the first time since I got here, but for a very long moment. After a while I hear her walk over to me. She kneels behind me and lifts my shirt over my head. An ankle finds its way around either side of my waist and into my lap. I feel her glossy tender lips press. After popping it in and out a few more times, he simply said, "It's time."He told me to get onto my back and to hold my legs back. He covered his hand with lube and pulled the plug from my stretched asshole. He told me I was gaping open, and it was the most beautiful gape he'd ever seen. I was proud that my ass was able to take it, and I smiled at him and begged him to fist me. He started slowly with 2 or 3 fingers. They barely felt like they were stretching me. I wanted more, and told him so.. My security detail insisted they had detected surveillance on me, but every time they tried to pin it down, it seemed to evaporate. Who ever the other party was, they were very good. So I asked questions, and then I did some back-time work.I soon saw the pattern of people working me. Man! These people were very good! My people were good enough, though, to disrupt what became apparent to me was a well-orchestrated operation. Once I learned what to look for, I quickly found them. "Them", being.