’ ‘Is it safe to call around for coffee? I need to talk to you.’ ‘Look, Harry, I know what you want to talk about, I think. I don’t think it...��s a good idea for a few days. Let us both think about this love thing you have. You know it isn’t possible right now.’ Helen made it clear to him, and Harry got the message. ‘Sure, maybe your right. Just me, feeling a bit lonely and depressed with this bloody weather. My balls are freezing off standing in this snow flogging videos of movies that people. ..one day I had an experience that was to stop that happening.I had made contact with someone who sounded very appealling and compatible and a rendezvous was arranged.I met him in the foyer of a hotel/motel type place and immediately went to his room. The nerves began to kick in a bit but almost as soon as were in the room he began to strip off, said he was going for a shower and invited me to join him.As he strode towards the shower room I could clearly see his impressive manhood, flaccid but. I kept refusing. I was driven by emotion. He limited his arguments to logic."I recall hearing on the news that something like fourteen hundred college-age kids die each year due to alcohol. If you need the citation, I can Google it."Some die directly from alcohol poisoning. They flat out drink so much it kills them. I know you won't do that. The rest die from accidents, primarily vehicle accidents."You don't have a designated driver. Everybody with you is probably going to drink too much to. The black girl noticed me and then she said "oh nevermind" and turned to go into the restroom and Jennifer said to her in a stern manner "oh no its ok" I was lost at this point and Jen turned to me and told me to tell the girl "it was ok." I was unsure what I was assuring but I looked at the girl and told her its ok, and she said "you sure" I nodded. At that moment she grasped Jennifer by her hand and led her to the table where her and the two black men were that we noticed earlier.I got me.