That proved to be the case as a fat man, appeared, pinching her buttock and saying something in what Micky, who was used to loading German trucks, tho...ght was German at the barn door, carrying a whip, and a bag. The three men shook hands and fat man, after appraising the poor girl`s plump backside with a pinch, paid the old boy and it was a lot of guilders. The older man asked something, and the new fellow Presumably `Herman’ said something then the two got on a bale and sat watching. The girl. "I don't know how many funerals I'd attend in a dress." Before three months ago how many dinners or charity events did you expectto go to in a dress?" Good point," I conceded.She handed me a small clutch with some things I might need during theevening and we went out the door.Once again she drove. We talked about how excited we were to be going onanother adventure. I admitted that I was excited to be going out with heragain as Gia and how much I appreciated her help. We worked on me trying. I looked over at my wife and her eyes were WIDE open and I noticed she could not take her eyes off of it. A minute later she leaned over and whispered "Holy Crap" ! I said I Know, Its huge !We took off away from the beach and one of the guys said Who wants to go first? My wife spoke up and wanted to go up first and I just said ok and watched as this guy put her in a harness. He was behind her and reaching around to buckle her straps firmly in place. The way the boat was rocking on the water. She gaveher condolences about my parents and how difficult it must be on me Iaccepted the best way I knew how. After a few uncomfortable moments ofher sizing me up she said "well I suppose I should introduce you to myson, he is so eager to meet you' I said "might as well" this issomeone I would be playing and studying with for a few years till Icould get out of this god awful place.She called out sharply "Missy come in here now" I heard a high lispingvoice "yesssss mummy be right there" .