I guess I should back up a bit and tell you about this incident, and the facts from my point of view so you are less confused about what happened. So ...et me tell you why I now have an ex-friend, and an ex-girlfriend. I was in the final year in senior high and was doing pretty good in all my classes. Doing good meant I didn’t have to worry too much about my marks, so I got a job after school that I worked at for four hours every day, plus any weekend I wanted to work I could. That job supplied. I don't expect the readers to understand or appreciate the complexity of my relationship with Jim; you likely are thinking that this is a bizarre relationship. Perhaps you are correct; but it works for us. After twenty three years of marriage, and nearly twenty five years of sharing me with other men, Jim knew how my mind worked far too well. Jim could always find a way to strike the perfect balance between leaving me embarrassed and humiliated at the level of exposure and submission he. "Mom pointed at the toilet. "Sit down, Jerry." I pulled the seat and coverdown and sat. "Now. How do you feel about Larry?"As thought of that beautiful man danced through my head, I said, "He'shandsome, kind, sweet, caring,..."As I tried to think of more words, mom asked, "You want to be with him,don't you?" Oh, yes." Then let us do what we can for you. Your sister and I with some help fromyour father can make this happen, but you have to trust us. Now you haveveto rights, so you can end. Dave knew in his own mind, it was lingering respect for Julie, the desire to not be disloyal to her, to not stain her memory by rushing on to something else. From what little Shae and he had talked on their relationship, it seemed she'd understood his sensibilities and respected them.It was fine with him. The subject would have to be raised sometime, maybe not soon. After all, these days, lots of people lived together, sometimes for years and years, without benefit of marriage, raising kids and.