"They even knew the hotel and had some opinions about if it was a good or bad choice.Jimmie said, "Christina knows that I have friend by name Palmwald...why she told me what she knew and said it was up to me to do what I found to be best with that information."Now I knew for sure that Jimmie had told me the cruel truth because Rose-Marie had told me a few days ago about her plans about going away that Friday for a party with a "girl gang" what used to have had a good time when they met during. They used to walk do some pranayam. I never saw uncle doing any hard exercise but aunty usually asked me “Beta inhe bhi kuch exercise batao.. bus mote hote ho ja rahe hai…” Uncle ka hamesha ek hi reply hota tha “Pet dikhega nahi to logo ko pata kaise chalega ki tu muje khana khilati hai?” Aur uncle or main hus k anty ka majak udate the.Kuch din aise beet gaye Sunday k din main aur uncle morning me garden me mile. Weekend tha to main bhi relax tha. Uncle bank me job karte hai. To unko bhi chutti. We hugged and hugged for so long; I got over tired and lost my balance.When I fell back against the table for support, Jim and Colleen grabbed me and helped me to the chair. We were all crying. Colleen kept hugging me, even when I was slumped in the chair.There was so much to talk about, but we had to be careful with a Federal Marshall in the outer office, so we kept it down."When did you know you were ... you?" Colleen asked."I knew the second I woke up, baby doll, but I was in pretty rough. Pete said, “But isn’t that everyone in the Circle?”“Yes, and a few others.”“What do you do to stop from taking someone for granted?”“It’s harder than it sounds. When we get familiar with someone and we really know them, we think we know how they think. I’m constantly stopping myself and saying, ‘Wait, that statement about them might NOT be something they agree with any longer. I defer to that person, even Alice and my other wives. I just might not know what they’d do in some situation or what.