. and..." Her hand on my leg must be cutting off the oxygen supply to my brain, I chastised myself. I decided I would show her I was smarter than I l...oked sometimes. "And you're just using the campus visit as an excuse, aren't you?" See? I tole you he wasn't as dumb as you thought he was," commented Eric to Keisha. He carefully kept his face neutral, his quick glance in my direction to see if his barb hit its target his only giveaway. Keisha's response was to hit him in the bicep."Give the. -----------------------------------------------------------------------------Two days later we were both sitting in the reception of a private sexual health clinic. Don't ask me how mom found out about it, but she had been busy making phone calls after I raised my little problem.We went in to see the doctor together. As we entered the consulting room I saw a desk behind which a largish looking lady in a white coat was sitting. There were two chairs in front of the desk and to one side of the. “Like it?” he asked me as he laid his head down and started to stare at my kneecaps from his angle.I couldn’t lie to him. It was too hard. He had lied to me once, but then he confessed. He felt like shit for the next week, but I snapped him out of it after a while.“It felt weird,” I told him as I tried to replay the memory back in my mind. “Really weird.”He somehow pulled off a shrug from the stance he was in. Since he was on his right side facing the TV, he threw his left arm out and I grabbed. Both partners need to be totally relaxed. I don’t mean that you don’t feel excited toward each other; you definitely do. I mean don’t bring stress from work or family or politics or finances into this moment. And don’t stress about whether you can even achieve the often-elusive triple orgasm. Just relax and enjoy whatever happens,OK, I think the man has to get the ball rolling, to make this work. I have never achieved “The Triple” when I made the first moveThe woman needs to be flat on her.