Perfect relaxation for a girl fromthe suburbs.It was Sunday, and already late in the afternoon… not enough timefor a movie. Tommy was drawn to ...he food court and while he got us asnack, I sat watching the black girls in their promenade, showing offtheir hairdos. I considered whether or not I wanted my hair done.Nah, it would be a waste when I shampooed Monday morning, but maybe amanicure. I looked at my sandal-clad feet, a manicure *and* pedicure,that’s the ticket! I saw Tommy. During our conversation she was asking me about my vacations and study related things. I asked her about his son’s school and studies. Then she informed me that uncle and her son will go back after lunch to meet relatives and come late in night. She asked me what I am going to do whole day. I replied I will be just b in home surfing and watching television. Then there was silence for some time and den I spoke up by saying sorry. She replied by asking “sorry for”. I replied about the incident. At this time of year,hotels in the area seem to move onto a whole different time schedule and,although service and food are as good as ever, the whole operation takeson a relaxed feel.The weather was somewhat rainy on the journey south but once the sunreturned with a certain determination; we were able to enjoy idle days bythe sea with food and drinks providing a welcome relief in the middle ofthe day.We are lucky that we have some friends who bought a magnificent villaoverlooking the coast. Women are not eligible for any of the exceptions available to men. He is conditioned to a closed selection of possible reasons for your extra-marital sexual activity all of which reflect negatively on you or him or both and compel him to action. When it comes to things that we feel very strongly about - like sexual fidelity - bias and conditioning define our perceptions regardless of the specific circumstances. A barrier is created that prevents him from understanding your sexuality and cannot.