Often I would stay at her place while she was out with her friends and when she came home we would have sex. That was the thing that kept me from tryi...g to nail her down about our relationship. The sex. She was extroverted and enjoyed teasing me and trying different things, locations and testing my resolve. When it came to sex, I could be pushed quite a bit.Like I said, I'm a bit of a nerd and solitary. I don't have a lot of confidence around women especially regarding emotions, sensuality and. I am a psychiatrist, and the art of psychiatry is the skill of getting people to act in their own best interest even when they don't want to. We do this by realizing their perceptual distortions and helping them overcome them.Everyone, not just schizophrenics, have perceptual distortions. Remember when we used to read comic strips (I know, dinosaur age) Cathy had a perceptual distortion about her weight. Much like an anorexic sees a fat girl in the mirror.Now you think that only sick people. So one that note, Patricia and continued our friendship in where we looked after each other's home while one of us were away.It was on a day I just got home from work, and I was going to enjoy my weekend off from work, when I heard I knock on my door. So I answered the door and it was Patricia, asking me if I could come over and put up some new mini-blinds up in her home. Well I said, well why not for a friend? Than I got some tools and went over to Patricia's and started in her living room and. Mrs. Smith said a guest lecturer had finished her advanced classes at the senior facility and was moving to the junior facility to give intermediate classes. She would ride along. Mrs. Smith threw Ned a knowing glance as she said ‘Holly is not subject to student or staff discretion rules. Be careful of her traps. Holly is a lecturing expert on using clothes, hair and makeup to broadcast subtle attraction signals. Save your energies for the return evaluation.’ The opaque privacy panel between.