” Feelings of isolation & alienation are common in this stage. A person might wonder “Is this a phase?” “Am I only attracted to this one same ...ex person, or is this going to be a permanent trend?”Step Three: Identity Tolerance.In this stage, a person might begin to accept identifying as gay, lesbian or transgendered or bisexual. Some might come to terms with some parts of being a gay, but not fully embrace it. One might accept participating in sexual activity with woman and consider it okay,. I could tell that she was beginning to warm up. I started to put my hands up under her shirt and felt her breast though just the bra and she began to unbutton her shirt. Then I pulled my shirt off and he held each other, feeling skin on skin, nothing between us above the waist besides her bra and i was able to pull her breast out of her bra and suck on the little light pink nipple. She gasped at how good i was making her feel. I could feel her stroke my hair and i reached back to unclasped. 'Oh, Matthew.' Her smile was as wide as her face would allow. 'How's my favourite grandson?''Nana, I'm your only grandson.''I know, darling. Have you come to treat me to Sunday lunch? You know how much I hate the food here.''Nana, the food here is excellent. It's one of the reasons I picked it for you.''I know, darling. But if I said I liked it, then you'd never take me out. And I wouldn't get to ride in that nice car of yours.'Nana Edith was in her nineties. She'd insisted she could take. Jumping right in to alleviate her indiscretion, I said, "You needn't feel mortified in front of me. I'm of the age and belief that we all do stupid shit from time to time, and should get a pass every now and again. It's only when the stupid shit becomes continuous that we should worry."Jackie's face lit up with a smile as she responded, "Thank you for making things easier." She stared at me for a moment before she leaned in and kissed me lightly on the lips."Thank you!" I appreciatively.