Crossing legs helps. Occasionally tapping the clitoris helps, but I do this very rarely.”“When I’m sitting (like in school), I cross my legs and...contract my leg muscles together – a technique my lover (a woman) showed me.”“When I masturbate, I sit up in a chair or on the bed, cross my legs right over left at the knees and use the pressure of my inner thighs, exerting all the energy in my body and centering it in my genitals.”“I either read a sexually explicit passage in a book (keep several on. “Not sure the cuffs will go around your boots you better remove them” he said then as I stood there unzipping and slipping my boots off, he got a towel and placed it on the floor where my stockinged feet would be so as they wouldn’t get cold on the tiles. Boots off I leant them against a kitchen cabinet. He looked at my skirt, “Better take the skirt off too.” So, as he watched I slipped my skirt off, he reached out and took it from me, then looking at my lower half said “Best take your knickers. He had pestered her since then to have his brand, till finally she had agreed to a very small one as she believed he was her partner for life and she was so in love.She then told me somewhat tearfully the whole story; He had said he would arrange it and one late evening at the allotments two of his “mates,” had arrived just as they were packing up. They had tea then went to one of the lad`s dads shed on the other side of the gardens the remote end.The smooth talking bunch put a gas blowlamp on. "Christine cocked her head and bit her lip. Erik laughed and she pouted."Of course, I will allow you. What must I do?"He grinned wickedly and at the same time, he began to blush."That is the beauty of this technique. You do not need to do anything. I observe you and then make corrections using verbal and manual guidance."She frowned."What do you mean by manual guidance?"Helen snorted and it was Erik's turn to look uncomfortable. He shifted his feet nervously and the words tumbled and stammered.