Little did we know we were headed for a place in Pennsylvania called Gettysburg.Like Antietam, the awful bloody battles were pretty much a stand-off, ...ut because the Confederates did not achieve the major victory on Yankee soil they sought, Gettysburg was considered a Yankee victory.Never again was a battle fought on Yankee land.I came out of Gettysburg physically unscathed, but mentally devasted as Fergie was torn apart by a cannon cannister shot at Pipe Creek Mill near Westminster,. I was shocked with her swearing, I answered yes and yes. She was asking more questions about the sex part of the job. She asked me what race and type of women I have had dates and sex with. I said to date all were middle aged white woman.They initiated the sex and as much as I tried to get out of it they were not taking no for an answer. So you prefer white women she asked. I said I prefer all women even if they are purple. My job doesn't allow me to be picky or prejudice and even though my job. My name is Betty Lou.’ She squeezed Tammi’s hand and waited for Ted to give him a big hug. ‘My husband Bob is cleaning out the hot tub,’ Betty grinned. ‘It’s been a few weeks since we’ve had guests.’ ‘Really?’ Ted asked. ‘I would think a place this nice for…for the price would be backlogged.’ ‘We are very picky about who is accepted,’ Betty Lou grinned. ‘Wow…I feel special,’ Tammy said pushing her blonde bangs from her forehead. ‘We’ve been driving for five hours. How soon can we get into. “What do you want to do, Steve? Please be honest with me. It’s the only way we can figure out a way forward.”That was a very good question. I didn’t know. And I needed to tell Kara that.“I don’t know,” I sighed.“Have you ever known?” she asked.Kara was taking this far more calmly than I would have in her place.“It depends on what you’re asking. I’ve pretty much always known that I wanted to go to college and then get a job, get married, and have kids and grandkids.”“Good! Me too,” she said.