The only way to avoid that is to either administer the trust or foundation yourself or to choose like-minded people to do the work for you. If you cho...se others to administer the funds for you, I would suggest others who don't need the inflated salaries or even volunteers. There will be costs, there is no way around it, but you can limit the overhead." What kind of costs," Doug asked."My fees, for example, then tax considerations require an accountant or tax attorney, there will be paperwork,. He had even apologized for not finding a batch of the notes, even though it wasn't his fault.But what had really impressed her was how he had come to her days later, the missing notes in hand, smiling and offering to sit and have lunch with her.Over lunch, he had claimed to have searched high and low for them after hours, just to return them. True, it had been too late then. The paper she had due had to be re-done from scratch. But the gesture had been appreciated, and over lunch, she had. So the journey starts here with me who was already high on Mumbai marijuana and there was another guy who was in some hurry. I remembered I started the conversation with this guy and learned that he’s Dhruv, a resident of Mumbai but was travelling to Kolkata for some wedding and could only manage to get a flight from Pune at this last hour. I told him about me as well and showed him some pics that I clicked on sea link, the gateway of India and other places.I don’t remember when I fell asleep. That night we made love like we were new to each other. The giving and receiving of pleasure was the most exhilarating experience we had had in years. I couldn’t be more thankful to ‘Mr. Santa’, whoever he was. I’m pretty sure my husband would’ve loved to have thanked him as well, had he known he was the spark to this now reignited flame. That weekend was filled with one freaky episode after another at our residence. *** My overcoat swayed with the pep in my stride that Monday morning. My face.