Coffee is the nectar of the gods and Colombia’s only legal drug export. It is also a natural lubricant, allowing us to slide from slumber to wakeful...ess with a minimum amount of friction. Java in hand, Sheila led me to a cozy nook beside the hearth in the Great Room, and we sat together next to the blaze.“I want to talk to you about last night,” Sheila said, as she sniffed her brew.“Okay, what’s on your mind?” I responded.“Tell me something, I know I turned you on. Why didn’t you have sex with. Am I misreading the situation or has Frank slept with almost everyone in the house?Kara: Ummm ... that's a complex subject.Diana: How so? It sounds like a simple Yes or No question to me.Kara: The short answer is Yes.Zatanna: Including you?Kara: Yes. I started sleeping with him a few years ago, when he turned 21.Diana: 21?Kara: I know how it sounds. At first I thought it was a mistake, but then I realized how much he meant to me. He was the first man I was friends with before ... Look, I make. The dominant, usually referred to as a dom for a man and a domme for a woman, makes the rules in the relationship. The domme’s preferences and desires define the relationship, and the sub agrees to the rules and allows the domme to control him. The sub has turned power over to the domme.“But all dominants and submissives are different,” she continued, “just like all people. Some subs like and need pain in the relationship, some need humiliation, some must have multiple partners, and some want. "I understood fully about stuff. I had been his age, not long ago. In high school, full of hormones and having no idea what to do, who to talk to, or which way to turn. My heart was melting as I watched him trying to say something to me, but not being able to get the words out."You know you can talk to me about anything. I'm not family, or a classmate. I know I am a woman, but you and I are more like pals than anything else. A lot of problems can be eased if you share your thoughts and worries.