" She took me by the hand and dragged me towards a grey-haired gentleman with a military type moustache."Jack, this is Sam whom Joyce mentioned, you c...n speak to him later, I want to introduce him to Stanley," she said just dragging me away from Jack before we could even say anything.Stanley who she referred to was the present Deputy Chief Constable, who was considered a right stickler for protocol and dress."Stanley dear, this is Sam, you know who we talked about with Joyce, you have a word. " "Are You Sure About this." "Of course it will show our love completely" "Are you sure" "How many times can i say yes!!" "Wouldn't you want to throw away your life for me" "Yes!! wouldn't you" I knew i couldn't hesitate when she asks me. . So it was nice for her to get up to dublin for the few days aweek to mind her dad,with that i said okay great for you if you ever need anything im across the road and off i went.that sunday night she called and said could i come over and give her a hand as her father had fallen and it was to hard to lift him over i ran within minutes we had him in bed and he was out for the count within ten minutes she could thank me enough and suggested a cup of tea .we were in the sitting room chatting and. Yes I'm a typical guy, rather than talk to my wife about how I felt or to see if something could be resolved I went straight to cheating.. I had a look online, it didn't take me long to find a website (mostly for swingers) where people arrange meet up's to have sex or go to swinging parties etc., the site did have the option of signing up as a single guy/gal so I went ahead and created an account and had a look around.The users were generally crap, mostly deleting or ignoring your messages, I.