It can even box us in: one acquaintance could only orgasm by rubbing against a pillow or by topping another guy; another gent could only orgasm if he ...sed a specific type of lube; yet another gent could only orgasm if his dick had a death grip and was stroked in a very, very particular way.Often these fixations limit us in how we enjoy each other, or even just enjoy ourselves when pleasure is in our own hand(s). It seems there may be a lot of emphasis or expectation placed on. . no cold feet. I just wish that I hadn't, like, found myself in a family way before the wedding. I'm going to look huge, Kim!", she said as she gestured to her obviously swelling stomach. "My Nana, you know how religious my Nana is, was soooo pissed when she found out that Dean and I were pregnant and not even engaged. I heard a ringing noise in my right ear for a full month after that phone call!"Tracy giggled at her own story and Kimberly joined in in spite of herself. Kimberly was actually. And called me a fag and a drag queen. I even got arrested when several guys decided to try and molest me. Something about unnecessary roughness. But God it felt so good to let out the frustration. My shrink talked to the police, and after they cringed when he told them what had been shot off, and where, they let me go.I became a member of several transgendered support groups, and finally found some friends in the gay community. Then one day my life took another strange turn. I was at the local. And that is fairly typical of what you do for Alan?Soo: Yes, pretty much so. Sometimes I pee on the second session, but this morning I told him I was feeling quite full! And he always like to double-frig me. But he did ask for a special favour before our second video session.WPORN: And what was that then?Soo: Well he was very nervous as we sat and drank tea before our second session but eventually he asked me if it was OK, and to say no if it wasn't, he wouldn't raise it again but...WPORN:.