What does he look like. How old is he. How will it happen. How did you find him?’It turned out that Paul had contacted a local swingers club and the... had put him in touch with someone called Daniel who was known for his charm, size and staying power. Paul had gotten a picture of him and I must say, I liked what I saw. He was 37 years old with handsome features and we were to meet at the local Hilton where Paul had booked a suite for the night.As Saturday approached I found myself getting more. " I just couldn't see it. We didn't have a strong enough foundation. Most relationships like this don't survive the transition to college, especially when both parties have different plans, as is the case here." Did you talk about this with her?" Nope. I always figured she felt the same way." There's one of your problems, then. You needed to be up front about that. That may have created false expectations for her. Maybe you could have come to an agreement that you'd go your separate ways after. I may have dived too deeply into the poolof joy."The crowd snickered at the small joke."The thought I would someday stand before an assembly of strangers inhigh heels, wearing makeup, and dressed in a designer dress wasincomprehensible. Yet here I am and a better person for theopportunity. This honor overwhelms me. Just being considered a memberof the distinguished body of transgender persons is humbling. Beingselected as the woman of the year is awe-inspiring. Thank you all."Carol had not. .. safe? I didn't want the feeling to end, but it soon did."First time?" Yeah."He stepped away from me and moved back to his position on the couch."Danke for the show" the German bar maid purred with what sounded like an authentic accent "now it's our turn and please, feel free to touch yourself. We like to know when our audience is having a good time, ya?"And with that she began lowering her dirndl, revealing two light pink nipples. Before I had a chance to fully take them in, her French maid.