But it seems like you might want to change it. And that’s what we have to talk about.”“Will you promise me one thing?”I chuckled, “Yes, what...ver we talk about, and whatever happens, if anything, is between us and nobody else.”“How did you know I was going to ask that?”“Because I know Cindi well enough that if she ever found out, she’d tease you mercilessly about it. Jackie might as well. But I do have a caveat to any promise I might give. There’s one person who I absolutely have to tell. ”“I am sorry but that club is for women only and you are definitely not a woman,” she said as she eyed him up and down, disappointed that he was not looking for a job.The smile disappeared from his face as he said, “Oh… guess that means they only hire women. Thanks for the information,” he said as he turned to leave“Wait a minute,” Beth called out. “You are looking for work?”“Yes, I worked my way through college tending bar and working as an occasional server, so that is why I was asking about. Out of my depth, I called Dulcie, but she was not available, since she was leading the evening office, but Liina said she’d get her to call when she returned. Not being domestically inclined – ‘housework is for women’, of course – I decided to go and find a meal in a local restaurant. Can I just insert here, that I am writing this in retrospect, and no longer believe that house work is just for women? Amongst other gender bias ideas? I really have changed, though I still lack the skills of some. I launched a left hook at it and watched it bang into the wallpaper leaving a mark that would require some tender loving care. I didn’t know what I should do first, shower or shave. The decision was too much for my almost zombie-like state of directionless thought.I gave up and brewed a pot of coffee in automatic mode and allowed my brain go into pilotless control wishing that same ploy would work for everything else I had to face that day.The refrigerator was a mess of outdated milk and.