My hair was to be quite long. I was told that Qaddafi preferred that.Some of his African bodyguards wore long wigs over short hair, but in mycase, it...was suggested that we go with my own hair and these extensions.I often thought later that if I had just been able to pull my hair off,I would not have done as good a job as I did. Having women's hair 24/7forced me to be more feminine. You always need to pay attention to it.Then the lessons began - haircare and deportment first, and thenskincare. Karen is staying depressed and I can understand why.I get home from work. MIL wants to talk to me. She tells me of how 3 young black men stopped by to drop off flowers. Then this guy named Bill also stopped by with flowers. What was strange is when Bernie stopped by to drop off flowers. Karen bursted in tears when he came in the room. I told her they are all good guys and we are all friends. “I just was checking. If I didn’t know any better I would be thinking my daughter sure has a lot of. ’ Then she looked at me and asked, ‘Did you meet Mr. Richards this morning?’ I responded, ‘Yesterday. Here is his card.’ On seeing the card, both Barbaras nodded. Barbara Johnson explained, ‘That is why Helen said you were late. Mr. Richards’ cards are a bit famous. You are the fifth person this year.’ Barbara Kennedy interrupted, ‘Sixth.’ Barbara Johnson went on, ‘Most people around here know that they can bring the card straight here. What was your interview like?’ Huh? I said, ‘What. I know he won’t cook for himself, and I don’t want him easting fish and chips all week”. Jen smiled “No problem, I’ll look after him”. Little did Sharon know just how Jen would look after me! “It’ll be nice to have a man to look after, I miss being needed”.“Do you think you’ll ever have another man in your life?” Sharon asked.“I hope so, I have met a nice guy who has made me realise there is life still to be lived, but where it will go I don’t really know yet”“Well, any man would be lucky to.