This is just what I've wanted," he said as I told him that was enough for his calendar and reminded him again that it was only for him, no one else wa... to ever see it."I know Mom, I know," he said and then took me in his arms and kissed me, kissed me hard on the lips even before I got my top back on. I went and changed and tried to forget the whole thing.That worked fine until later that night when I went in to say goodnight and there it was, on his wall, a calendar, all twelve months, one. Phrases like "Oh, I have *insert a race here* friends" is not your get out of jail free card - I would direct you to a film called Dear White People.I have seen this "preference" attitude in full affect on this site and in actual swinger parties (of all places), where someone is not dark enough or light enough. How is the poor guy (or girl) suppose to win? Being on a site like this (or simply being an actual adult) surely you must know that whatever attribute or trend in your "preferred" group. As if Paige’s verdict regarding the strength of the by-law was not enough to set me off, Mr. McMahan’s demand that she sit in the front seat infuriated me. Her amused acceptance that she was his date for the evening gave me the impression that she would be receptive to having some fun with it. ‘You must be very proud of your son, Mrs. McMahan. He’s worked hard to represent his church in the distribution of the Peoples’ estate.’ The lady’s expression changed from vinegary to a sugar-coated. Put some pajamas on, young ladyAgain she answered right away.but its hottttIt's the middle of winter!!!my dorm mate keeps the heat on like 80You're sleeping nearly naked in a room you share with someone else??shes not here right nowThen turn the heat down and put on some pajamas!she might be home l8r she hates being coldAnd the university is paying for your outrageous heating bill...hey my parents pay for me to live here thats includedI'm sure they don't expect you to have it on 80 all winter..