I didn't want to be the typical girl and cry about everything, but I couldn't help wanting his arms around me, telling me it would all be OK."I don't ...now. I still want it to. One thing I do know is that we've not been fair to you. You just wanted a relationship without all the drama. Instead of giving you that, I've managed to turn your life upside down. I'm sorry about that more than anything."He was quiet for a while. I couldn't guess what he was thinking, but prepared myself for the. Couples who wanted to try drastic methods of birth control were often recommended vasectomies by man-hating doctors eager to slice and dice away at some poor slob’s manhood. James remembered watching an episode of Home Improvement where Tim Allen’s character faced the vasectomy question. He didn’t watch the rest of the episode once the V word got mentioned. Doctors often recommended vasectomies to sterilize men who got pressured into these procedures by nagging wives. They never recommended. I laugh and agree. We get out and dry off. I dig around in my bag and pull out some jeans and a shirt. Shane puts on the same and we head to his car. Once we're inside, I have to ask him something.“So, I take it this isn't your first time?”“No.” Shane says. “I'm sorry I've never told you this before, but I'm gay. I was bi, but I was more into guys than girls, and lately I haven't been interested in girls for a little while now. I would've told you, but I wasn't sure how you'd take it.”I was. I met a lot of people who I hung out with and one girl who I just could not stand. I don't know what it was about her that just rubbed me the wrong way. I would always hang out with my crew and she would hang out with hers. One day we had an argument in class and just let out some F bombs. The teacher naturally kept us in for detention. While in detention we just started talking and we just clicked. For someone in 8th grade she had a nice body. Her ass was thick and good size boobs. Bigger than.