I told her never to let me know for sure if she did anything and to always leave me guessing about it. I said to write down when I checked her and if ... was right or not. I said in three months and four days I would know when she let me read her notebook. Corina asked me how could she do it without me knowing about it and I told her just to tell me she had to do something with a friend or call and tell me when she had to work late. I said she works late almost once a week and maybe she would. After I had lived with Shelly for a week, she began to reveal her true intentions. After dinner, during our usual conversation, she said, “I need to discuss something with you now that you’re comfortable with me. You’re very obedient towards me and I want to take that further.” I had no idea where she was going and my silence prompted her to continue. She said, “ I want to try the D&S lifestyle with you. Do you know what that is?” I admitted that I did not know what she meant. Shelly. I live in a rural area so there’s not much traffic so I wasn’t too worried about my driving abilities. I was almost home when I saw the red and blue lights behind me. My heart started pounding as I knew I was legally past the limit and this was going to cost a ton of money.The officer put me through a DUI test and when he was done he let me know that in his judgment I was too impaired to be driving and was going to be placing me under arrest for a DUI. I was toast. So I figured I had nothing to. " God Deb, I couldn't do that. I couldn't have sex with another man; that would be cheating!" Who said you had to have sex with another man? I'll fix you up with a date with a guy I know. You go to dinner and maybe go dancing and have a few drinks with him, kiss him goodnight and then come home and tell Gary your date fucked your brains out. Then you say you are even and then ask him what he wants, a marriage or a divorce. If he says marriage you tell him that he has used up his "Get out of.