I think they like the idea of it and talking about it, because it isn’t all that hard. But I get the interest and the erotic appeal of them. I have ...lso been lucky enough to have been with two Dominants who used them creatively. (Three actually, but one I won’t go into more detail about, as She was a Woman whom I served briefly years ago.)The first guy I met while still in Washington and his main interest was discipline in the form of heavy belting and enemas. We met through a swinger magazine. Adrianne was watching the action on the bed with disbelief on her face. Doug said something and she didn't respond so he said something else and put his arm around her shoulders. She was staring at the action on the bed and didn't seem to notice and a minute later he let his hand fall to rest on one of her breasts. She didn't seem to notice that either, but when he squeezed her tit she finally noticed and pushed his hand away. He left his arm on her shoulders and a minute or two later his hand. She turned to look at him and saw him staring down the side of her dress, and when he looked up, he blushed and she smiled. Alas, he said, “You, um, have a bug on your back.” “Brush it off then,” she said with as much good grace as she could muster at such a transparent, graceless lie, and turned a little away from him. She thought, as often she had occasion to, at how boyish notionally grown men could be, but she remembered how hard she found it to hit on men with good grace and sufficient. Then he stroked the sensitive flesh of the insides of her thighs."How does that feel?" Uncle Alex asked her."Good," Jenny whispered back."Just 'good?'" Really good," the young blonde told him."If I keep doing it can we say it's my secret birthday present to you?"Jenny nodded, unable to look at the man, and said: "Yes."He pulled her nightie hem up onto her belly and gave her panty crotch a squeeze. Opening her legs, she invited him to keep going, and soon the man was gently kneading her coozie.