This was my first trip to Mexico, but my Spanish had been perfected by talking to local workers and practice in school. I learned the hidalgo style in...school, and I learned the common style from the workers. We would all laugh when I would say something much too highfalutin for their speaking style. I was comfortable in the language, but not in the country.I guess it's what you are used to, but I was very uncomfortable with the very obvious class structure in Mexico, at least in the part where. "Hey Rub!" I called out holding up the two cases of beer in my hands. She laughed, approaching."You having your own party today?" She asked."Actually, they're for tomorrow night," I told her. I was surprised when she sort of frowned at that, and then must have realized something."Sorry, I guess we forgot to tell you. Mom has a two drink maximum rule at her party. She doesn't want anyone getting drunk, and spoiling anything for everyone else." Great," I said ... though thinking I'd at least have. Shine your penlight for me," he said. Kevin pried the child off his neck and softly said, "I have to scout around, and I want you to do me a favor. When I get back, you can hug me all you want. Is that okay?"Jamie shook his head 'no', then a tentative 'yes', and then said, "Okay, I will, Daddy always said I must be brave." Your daddy is very smart." Pointing towards the light he continued, "Do you see that light?"Jamie looked to where Kevin was pointing and saw a small light, he replied, "Yes,. She never told her hubby and never got caught. They divorced a couple of years later for other reasons, but something of a habit had formed: She got off on cheating.It was five years or so before she got married again. She was having so much fun romping around with whomever she wanted that she didn't know if she could marry. But for some reason, she did. With that guy, she struggled to stay monogamous for a year. By then she was starting to get some success in her business and they both were.