It is all in your best interest even though you mutter under your breath. Nine Important Facts to Remember as We Grow Older#9 Death is the number 1 ki...ler in the world.#8 Life is sexually transmitted.#7 Good health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die.#6 Men have 2 motivations: hunger and hanky panky, and they can’t tell them apart. If you see a gleam in his eyes, make him a sandwich.#5 Give a person a fish and you feed them for a day. Teach a person to use the Internet and. As if she was his personal alarm siren, she entered the bank daily promptly at 9:45am, just before the hardware store opened for business to make change for the cash registered and returned again at 3:45 to make her bank deposit. When receipts were high, usually over the Christmas holidays or just before a snowstorm or weekends when the handymen husbands are hoping to quiet their nagging wives by finally buying the needed supplies to do that fix-up project that they have procrastinated doing,. The nextthing I knew, his hands were on my waist. Frightened beyond description, Igrabbed the pile of lingerie and stood up, turning toward this man as I did.Suddenly, we were face to face. Surely he could see the animal fear andpanic in my eyes."Are you okay?" he asked, true concern in his voice. His eyes fell to theballed up nylon in my hands. His face lit up in recognition of what he saw,and thus why I was embarrassed."Oh! I'm sorry," he said. "Please excuse me Miss." It's okay," I. Their daughters were doing the fetching and carrying, while Tilly's extended family dug in. It was obvious that they hadn't had a home cooked meal in ages."I'm sorry..." I started to say as I sat down across from Tilly."Don't be." Tilly said forcefully, cutting off my apology. "Your wife already said that she was sorry and I accepted it. What happened wasn't your fault and it wasn't ours. In fact, it was beyond our control. Your wife did say things would be different in the future. I told her.