At the bar were couples sitting and drinking. A lone guy stood between two couples with a glass of wine casually turning around to survey the room, n...thing creepy, just looking around. We were well into our conversation when I noticed that the guy at the bar was staring at my wife and staring at her legs. She seemed unaware and we continued talking. Not long later I noticed again the guy at the bar staring at my wife, this time I could see why, her legs were open and he was looking directly. I told him to get real and pointed to a long line of ladies waiting just to get into the ladies bathroom. Then he said how about a stall in the mens room. Now I knew he was starting to lose his mind. Dan explained that all though lots of men were going in and out, nobody would even notice me. I realize I'm not Dolly Parton, but I reminded him that 20 guys pissing into urinals are going to notice a 5'3" brunette with a chest my size and wearing a skirt, standing next to them. Dan laughed and. I had heard about trojans (the code, not the condoms)... programs which allowed you to "tunnel" into the computer at the other end (usually for the purposes of stealing a person's personal information). But I wasn't a hacker and knew nothing about programming. So, while the concept of being able to investigate someone more deeply was intriguing... it wasn't something that I ever indulged in... although I knew it sometimes occured during chat room interactions.Things changed a bit for me one. One revelation that Lorraine uncovered was my bisexuality when almost in haste I had blurted out about the crush I had on Dan. She was surprised, not with it being my Father, rather the gender of my lust. She pointed out that individuals who were able to get carnal satisfaction with both sexes were bisexuals!‘That makes us two of a kind Val’ she laughed. Somehow I had already taken that for granted.All Coming TogetherThe morning sunshine dazzled for our brunch together at my place. The upturn.