We ate breakfast in silence broken only for asking to pass something. Finally, I said, "Allie, I'm not sure just how I feel about all this. On the one...hand, I really want to believe that nothing happened, but then again, why couldn't you just talk to me? You could have told me that from the discussions from your nights out where some things were mentioned that you might like to try, but we might have to wait until Maggie was out on a date or staying with her girlfriends. We could have made some. . well, I'd never trust him again. The marriage would be over."That hit me again, hard. I realized I had two options. On the one hand, I could alert Brad and, if he was stepping out, he could either call a halt to it, or, more likely, take it further undercover. On the other hand, I could snoop around, find out whether he was stepping out.So I had to choose between enabling him, allowing him to do to Trudy what Noreen had done to me; and exposing him for the cheater Trudy feared he was, which. ” She looked at me, still embarrassed as if unsure if she wanted to hear the questions. I simply asked her, “Baby, do you usually use your fingers or do you have a toy?” She looked at me almost unsure how to answer. Finally she responded quietly, “I mostly use my fingers. I have tried a few other objects including a banana once, but have always anything I used an awkward size or shape and didn’t get the same pleasure.” I asked, “Have you ever thought about buying a toy?” She thought for a. So you can see where this is going, well only to a point. The female mature student was the same age as me and was a single parent family and had left her friend back home to watch over things. During the night out she talked about her friend and what a horny cow she was, she even had a dedicated wardrobe for clothing designed for sex. So as a joke of some sort the nature of which now eludes me I sent her a number of suggestive text message but being from my phone she didn't have a clue who.