" Yes, I understand but please say yes; I won't stand in your way..." Please don't do this to me I'm so vulnerable... and of course I want to say yes ...ut my whole world has turned upside down in one day I..."And indeed Anita did look vulnerable so I decided to stop pressuring her, "I understand darling, I really do."Anita sprang from her chair and I rose to meet her and hugged her tightly then I kissed her. She kissed me passionately then pulled back from me and with her head tilted, "Darling,. Sara's father came home from work early one day and slipped into the house without Sara or her mother hearing him. Not seeing his wife or son downstairs, and being afternoon, he assumed that they were up in the boy's room, perhaps napping. Quietly, he ascended the stairs and then slowly pushed the door open to his son's room. Instead of finding his boy asleep snuggled with his mother, he found his "little girl" in a blue and white dress, with her hair in pigtails, dolly in her arm and handing a. Of course, back then, my unfixed overhead was only a tenth of what it now was. Besides Rob and me, there were twenty seven other residents living on the farm. They all had to be housed and fed, and that just added to the pressure and worry I was already starting to feel.We were at the dinner table, having a meeting. It was around nine o'clock at night, and we were starting to get on each other's nerves, going over the same ground again and again. I'd been arguing with Rob about the need to cut. There stood my 21 year old niece, naked as the day she was born, on her birthday!! She had a bottle of rubbing alcohol from the cabinet and a couple of cotton balls and was scrubbing away a temporary tattoo that had been on her upper shoulder. Her other tattoos were gone. All but the one on her shoulder and the one on her right shoulder blade. I must have looked like the world’s biggest idiot, because when she looked at me she laughed and said, “The tats were all fake ones we put on at.