Wow! That was a revelation. But, it turned me on to think of her dreaming of another man. That night (we were out of town spending the night at a frie...ds house), I massaged her clit to orgasm as she fantasized about a former boyfriend. After her orgasm, I stroked myself to orgasm and imagined, not myself with Madonna, but my wife with her boyfriend! This incident, and similar ones that would follow, opened the door to my revealing to her my desires to be dominated. Rather than tell her. Jake began to chafe at the narrow strictures of their sexplay and longed for more erotic reciprocation than Joe was equipped to provide. Now they face the challenge of discovering a new sexual dynamic that satisfies them both. Interestingly, it’s not just Joe who struggles to allow more flexibility into the daddy/boy dynamic. Jake is so used to Joe being Old Reliable that it’s hard for him to believe it when Joe asserts his interest in trying something new. Getting stuck in rigid role-playing. ”“Jethro, come here,” I hollered. He came running up, his tongue hanging out. “These are all good guys. There’ll be a lot of work being done. You need to stay by the house and leave them all alone, okay?”He barked, then ran back up to the house.“Will he really do that now, only guard the house?” Beth asked. Harry had a wondering look on his face as well.“I don’t know, I don’t speak dog.” I started laughing.Beth smacked me on the arm, then she and Harry started laughing with me.“Okay, you got me. They are like Oprah and Gayle, besties to the end. Along with Robert, Liz and me we are one of the three E.R. teams that work the night- shift. St. Michaels gets extremely busy and more so during the night. In NYC things are always happening. Robert saw us three while he was finishing talking with a patient’s family member in the distance. He quickly walked over and tapped the desk and chided “Hey, hey, hey guys, what is all this laughing about? Finish up your work so you can clock out. .