One activity I have struggled with for a long time is due to past abuse from my ex-husband Dick, anal sex has not been an easy boundary for me to have...tested. When Dick and I first began our sexual relationship we each had an open mind about many things, exploration with new activities was never an issue. We both seem to always enjoy testing ourselves and each other, and never had we considered anything we did together as abnormal. Soon after we were married though, things began to change in. Many of the things I had looked into had done well, gaining in value up to 25% in some cases. I wondered if this is what he would class a boomer, oh well only one way of finding out.“Dad, you know the other week I asked you what you did for your work.”“Not now Jack, I have to do a lot of research and hope to find something good I can show my boss, or I could lose my job.”“Yes I understood that from what you said earlier, but I have research information already done, which you could use if you. ... what is it?" Ben looked at me for a few seconds and said "you said girls masterbate... but do they do it as often as guys?" I smiled and said "honestly, not as often as most guys, but we do still enjoy it from time to time". Ben looked down and then back up to me and asked "how often do you?". I wasn't quite prepared for him to ask me that, but I did say he could ask me anything... I said "well... I probably shouldn't say this to you, but between the two of us... I do it a lot more often. “It’s not Michael.”His eyebrows shot up in surprise.“To hear your mother tell it, you two are headed for the altar. What happened?”“Mother is getting ahead of herself because Michael and I are just dating. He has his career to tend to, and I’ve got years of school ahead of me. I met the other guy in the ethics class I took over the summer. We don’t have a future together, but he makes me crazy,” I answered.Rob grinned and pointed to the phone.“So call him, Cuz, and invite him up for the.