I wasn’t either of those things, but people often mistook me for a homeless person. I was getting the weathered look of a guy who lives outdoors. Th... truth is I wasn’t technically homeless, but I didn’t go home for days at a time. My hair was in dreadlocks, which contributed to the homeless impression. Not the cool kind of dreadlocks that a guy in a band might have, mine were nasty. I didn’t even set out to have dreadlocks, it just happened when I wore a knit cap for a month and neglected to. I learned to stroke my thingie just the way I imagined the boys did.. I also did all the usual girl stuff too but was careful not to break my hymen. I learned that if my thingie was not totally hard it would bend down and I could rub it up and down the length of my slit. I was now 12 years old and my body was growing rapidly and so was my thingie. It was now a bit over four inches long and about 5/8 inch in diameter. Since both the head of my thingie and my vulva were very sensitive, it felt. The next few weeks were busy and we were not able to see each other at all, although we made lots of phone contact. We had decided to get home for Mothers Day weekend together and see both Moms as well as each other. It would be the last time before exams that we would be able to spend any time together. We both agreed to bone up on our studies so we could free up the time. Finals were not that far away and, with my heavy class load, I was feeling the pressure.Maria and Henny were also going. We all have our own understanding of what masculinity and femininity are. That understanding is what determines gender for each person, and how it does that can be broken down to three parts:Gender identity – An individual’s internal sense of being a man, woman, neither, or both.Gender expression – How a person expresses masculinity, femininity, both, and neither. That could be through physical appearance, behavior, dress, preferences, speech patterns, etc.< li>Physical self-perception – A.