And she's always been out front with us. She as much as told me that she can't really make us do anything... that we'll do whatever it is we're going ...o do, no matter what. And she trusts that we'll be responsible." After a pause, she added, "Mom's always been good at that - making us responsible for our actions, I mean." Yeah, I know that. At least intellectually. But emotionally, I'm still a bit surprised. I guess I thought we'd get grounded, say for the next ten years or so." Wanna hear. And that's the fucking problem! I don't WANT gentlemen who respect me! I want a fucking BARBARIAN to forcibly take me without bothering to argue the point!Despite what we've all seen in movies and television, most of America's wars were started by (gues who?) America! You invaded Mexico, annexed Texas, started a war with Spain so you could conguer the Phillipines and Cuba. You went into Iraq (twice!) just for the hell of it, you have boots on the ground in every other country on the planet. But to my surprise she smiled at me and asked how my headache was, as my mother was near she said, oh that’s why you were looking moody. After that another surprise came to my ears, aunty was saying that she was feeling somewhat scary to stay alone so can you stay with me tonight. I was dumbfound to hear this and my mouth was wide open with surprise. Then my mother immediately said that she can have me tonight at her house.I was totally confused and went to her house after sometime because she. "I know you liked football, but I am not sure Joannie is really into football. If you are going to watch the game why don't you get the proper clothes for the game. Go down and visit Jenny at the lingerie store and pick up a cheerleader's outfit. I think that would be nice." That's okay Dana, I really wasn't that interested in the game." Oh, but I insist. You only have about 30 minutes before Jenny closes so you better hurry. I can't wait to see you in your little outfit, bye."I cursed at.