When she stepped back, JJ, who was pretty buzzed from the beer he had consumed, said, "I'm going to miss you Donna, and I am really gonna miss those t...tties."Donna blushed at the comment. She had caught JJ, and his brother Ted, staring at her chest hundreds of times over the years. But neither had ever made any direct comment to her. She excused the remark as a product of his drinking."You should let him see them before he leaves." Mark said. "Hell, we'd all like to see them."Donna tried to. Within a month they’d talked me into joining the church choir; I didn’t rate my singing voice but they told me altos were in short supply. Doug would have laughed at the notion of a church choir being fun, but it was. Singing in harmony is exhilarating because you inhabit the music; you’re absorbed by it, rather than absorbing it as a listener does. The discipline of learning and practising puts demands on both the individual and the collective and it’s stimulating. That’s why you make friends. “In fact I think it’s kind of like an initiation.”“We’ve all fallen for it at one time or another,” I explained. “The rule is that tantrums are bad. Tantrums should never win. So you either try things that won’t cause a tantrum or stick to your guns if one starts up.”“When Bec was little, one time we went to a concert thing back in England. It was like the characters from Sesame Street only different. Before the concert started, she threw the biggest tantrum ever because she didn’t get the same. ‘Oh God, I’m sorry’ Cheryl blurted out. I had forgotten Cheryl was still at work and she was just staring at me and Rena with wide eyes. I did the only thing I could think of and just said, ‘why don’t you join us?’ Cheryl wasted no time closing and locking the door and stripping out of her clothes. Rena had a look of surprise on her face, but she had been so close to orgasm that she didn’t complain. ‘What y’all were doing looked great, just go back at it and I will join in’ Cheryl said. I.