Reality was, neither Michelle nor I had a personality which accepted failure, so we focused on getting her past her block. By now we'd tried our norm...l relaxation techniques, along with some other "tricks" which had helped her get past previous mental hurdles, but none of that was working this time. Her body seemed hard-coded to not be able to explore this particular taboo, yet she remained dedicated to seeing this through. It wasn't long before she took the initiative and started trying to. There was no sound of life and no evidence of any activity in either direction.Mike was not certain if that was a good sign or a bad sign. In any event, it gave them the opportunity to figure out how to cut themselves off from outside contact. A quick look at the support system for the bridge confirmed the fact that it was sturdy but easily undermined and brought down into the deep ravine almost 20 feet below. After it came crashing down in a roar and cloud of dust, it looked to the casual. She would go inside, explain her embarrassment, andeverything would be all right again.As she opened the front door, she heard a definite female giggle comingfrom the upstairs main bedroom, and her heart froze. The bastard!She crept upstairs, all thoughts of explaining her embarrassment gone, andlistened further to the voice form the bedroom."What if she comes home?," said the girl. It was his damned secretary!" Don't worry about that, Debbie", her husband said. "She . "When someone shows sexual interested in her she sometimes freezes up and can't think, talk or even move away. For her to speak up and ask a question like that clearly was a positive change for her. In the past, she may have just let him just do what he wanted for a while not said anything then move her feet so he couldn't reach them. "That is a huge change for you, usually you freeze up when something like that happens," I said."Yes, I wanted to let him know to ask me first." You were so.