Chapatis finished, I got down to prepare the side dish. Subhash moved back slightly while I moved sideways to get the frying pan & Oil. This way, I go... sandwiched exactly between the kitchen top & his front. I could have wriggled out of the tiny space between the counter & Subhash, but surprisingly decided to continue the work standing in the same position.Minutes later, Subhash gently blew his breath on the nape of my neck & licked my earlobe with his lips. I finished cleaning the potatoes &. And two I had been the victim of sexual molestation for several years when I was younger, by several people, so at the time I equated sexual contact with other males with being painful and shameful. The world I lived in up until then stagnated my sexual growth because I did not want to accept who I was, and would not truly begin until about a decade ago.‘Switch Hitters’, more particularly the locker room scene, would trigger the first part of my slow sexual awakening.The scene takes place. No ogling her mammoth tits and ass - no matter what your cock says.A simple, sincere smile melts her heart. It says "hello! I see you and I accept you as you are." A smile, if genuine and sincere, also disarms her and helps lowers her guard. 2) Talk to her. If you are in a grocery store, It may be a simple question like "where's the juice?". In a bar, it may be more elaborate like not having seen her before or you being there the first time or whatever - but you need to get the conversation. “You have done much for many in the community, and you have brought us much business. Besides, I hope to have you as a long term customer and perhaps, in time, as a friend.”“You have treated me fairly and helped me by answering my questions. How could I even think of going anywhere else,” Ki Jung laughed.“I must be on my way. Thank you again, Mr. Han,” she said as she presents her cupped hands to him.“Thank you and come back soon, Master Lee,” Mr. Han says in response as he returns the cupped.