Upon getting back to my condo I met my neighbor's next door a couple of younger guys and I'm guessing there girlfriends. They invited me over for drin...s and and a bbq to welcome me to Costa Rica Pura Vida. As the night went on we all were getting tipsy and having way to much fun if that's possible. A couple other guy's stopped by that knew my neighbors and to my surprise one of the guy's that I was actually attracted to on the beach earlier was among them. It's been awhile since I was with a. So, what are the ground rules?" I already said I'm not sleeping with you," Sandra reminded me. "And I don't suppose we should leave any permanent marks." I thought she said that teasingly, but I wasn't positive."What?" I'm sure my eyes bugged out; in fact I know they did. "Permanent marks? What the hell are you planning to do to me?" I'd been thinking of having Sandra prance around the house in a skimpy maid outfit or something. And she's talking permanent marks? I told her this."That's fine,". Telling J.T. and Ray about the script and the first rehearsal was ... interesting. Ray couldn't believe I was going to be giving a "blowjob" on stage. He thought it was the coolest thing ever, especially once I told him that Dirk would be returning the favor by going down on me. Slobbering like an excited basset hound, he begged me to sneak him into the next rehearsal. He was only half kidding, and I think the half that was kidding was only kidding. J.T. actually grunted when he found out that. Most days, I would leave my door open hoping she'd pop her head in my doorway as she made her way to the ladies' room. Often she'd stop by in the evenings before "being dragged out" with her friends. In the mornings, she'd saunter slowly by my door in only a towel--she always made sure I was looking.Our flirtations turned into casual dating, then after graduation we moved in together. A few months later we were married. It was the happiest day of my life.Our sex life is and always has been.