At this point the husband sat on the couch next to me and his wife got off my lap."Well Dave – you told us that you like bikinis and speedos. How ab...ut you guys get down to your speedos and I’ll go put on a bikini…."While the wife left the husband and I did what we were told, we stripped down and it turns out we were both wearing a black speedo under our jeans (I had told them I'd be wearing speedos under my jeans before hand).I was hard as a rock from making out with the wife and the husband. "Geez, Lionel! Did you grow more this summer?" Yeah. Coach says I'm six-eight now." And his voice had dropped about two octaves. That's why I didn't recognize him."You scared the bejezus out of me." Brian! Are you all right?" Dad yelled as he came running up. I guess he'd never met some of my friends."Yeah, Dad. Everything is cool. This is my friend, Lionel. Lionel, this is my dad, Mr. Frost." Hey, man. Nice to meet you." Dad is six-two and he was looking up at Lionel."Nice to meet you, too,. In fact, as she told me later, the men themselves were being rather quiet, never talking to one another, and only whispering to her. As for my mom, she was a little too occupied to be speaking . . . if you know what I mean.If you don't, then I really don't know what to say, other than to hope the surprise is a pleasant one. I know it was for me!Of course, I knew none of that at the time, but knew well enough not to disturb her. As open and honest as our relationship was, our one rule was that. Then you can regroup, but once you do, you cannot go back with that partner, unless you have put a time limit on your lifestyle. That means you really have to trust the person you are with, not to bring up certain things you may not wish to revisit."Nodding her head she seemed deep in thought when I asked, "Do you agree?"Looking up at me she simply said, "Yes." Yes, what?" I responded."Yes, Sir?" she said tentatively."That is the only response that is acceptable." I said."Now for a little test.