So let us see if I can provide a reasonable answer.My initial response to the question may surprise some of you who are new to Dominance/submission. A...Dominant should treat his submissive with respect. Mind that you do not confuse and/or conflate respect with deference. When I say treat the submissive with respect, I am not saying treat her as if she were in charge. Respect the submissive as what she is, a submissive.In other words, do not hold the submissiveness of the submissive in contempt.. ’ ‘Belinda, I need someone around me I can trust. If you were asleep, even drunk, and were shafted you’d know when you woke up? The truth please.’ ‘It’s happened twice and I knew — I had to clean up and walked with that familiar slightly stretched feeling.’ ‘Exactly. Do you believe my denial?’ ‘Absolutely.’ Belinda was asked to make a hair appointment but when drying Sandra’s back after the guest emerged from the bath said Sandra might have to wait days for an appointment time. ‘Call a salon. Which was about anything stupid.The other oddity, was that the women of the Sisterhood were also considered untouchable by the men on campus. At least in their early years. It was rumored that a girl had to be a certified virgin to gain acceptance. Nobody seemed to notice if they didn't stay that way. After all, it was a University and virginity was a rare thing for modern college graduates.So many of the Sisterhood achieved scholastic excellence, that they began to displace the existing. It’s always a different dream at first but it always ends up exactly the same. In the dream, I often start out alone doing something quite ordinary like watching TV or reading a book. Other times, I’m with someone else who later on in the dream becomes you. One way or the other, eventually it’s just you and I, my friend. Sometimes we’re by ourselves, at your little apartment or mine. Sometimes we’re out in public, at my work or with friends or even total strangers somewhere. The one single.