I got there for 7 and he was waiting for me at the bar I walked over to him shook his had and said this will be a 1st for both of us what about you? h... replied he does this all the time and he knows what to do and what to say to the wife to put her at ease. that made me feel good, I said I would ring him Friday night and meet him here over there in the corner and if he came over as if he knew me sat down and we could take it from there. Friday came and I told Dawn I was taking her out for a. If one tried to come that didn't feel right I told him not to come." He shrugged with a very 'white man' gesture and said, "It almost feels like I didn't pick them. It feels like the spirit picked them. I don't understand it but that's OK. There were many things my grandfather told me that I didn't understand and he wasn't as mysterious as the Great Spirit. I didn't understand when I had to spend that time with the rancher but now I do. I think that many things we don't understand in dealing. ' I reach for your lead and clip it onto your collar pulling you onto the floor. I lead you on all fours into the kitchen and tell you to make me a Coffee. You ask if you are allowed one also but your request is denied. I place the bowl on the floor and fill it with water, if you're going to behave like an a****l you can drink like one. You crawl to the bowl and bend your head to start drinking having first make sure that your arse is facing me as I sit drinking my coffee. You hope that the. Now I was married to a different woman, and we were living in California.I still stayed in touch with him, as we were the best of friends.He was working in Portland, Oregon, and I was working in Southern California at the time. I had called him up to see what he was doing, and he asked me if I'd like to come up and work on the job he was on, as he was friends with the boss man and there would be no trouble getting on.As I was out of work at the time, I told him I would talk to the wife and see.