She looked at the ground and asked if I had been sniffing her butt in the store! I quickly started denying it, but she interrupted me and proceeded to...tell me she wasn't a hooker or anything, and had never done anything like this before, but she needed money to buy her son some Christmas presents, and if I wanted to, she'd let me sniff her bum if I bought her a few things from the store! I was shocked and speechless, but when she quickly turned around and started to walk away, I called to her. All of a sudden, it was as if time hadstopped and all of her troubles had disappeared. At that moment, Michaelwas gone forever and Amanda was all that existed. The simple act of Jamessending her flowers was the push that she needed.She thanked Lauren and turned to the man beside her and gushed, "Honey,they're beautiful!" She threw her arms around his neck and gave him apassionate kiss.Heather felt her knees get weak and she almost passed out as she watchedAmanda, her husband, show her. He thought to himself, "I am Dan Everett. I am the man of thishousehold. I am the husband. I am in charge and Suzy will do as I tellher to do." His confidence seemed to be returning and he was sure hewould swiftly regain control of this situation.Then he decided to sit up in the bed. He had raised his head andshoulders enough to look down the front of his body. Suddenly the newfound confidence seemed to flee rapidly and his head dropped back tothe pillow. He was mentally prepared for the image. There are 5 stages of control and they affect men and women differently.Stage 1 - Deliberate touching. This can be a handshake, fist bump, hand on the shoulder, anything deliberate. If you just brush passed a bunch of people on a crowded subway platform, that won't count. This will be addictive to the one who touches you and they will want to do so more often. This will also make you seem way more charming and charismatic to them and they will listen to your words more closely. They might not.