We got into a large number of fights for a while and we separated to cool off for a while. We had never had sex. Don’t ask why, it just never seemed...right. After a month of so she met a guy named Joe who she liked a lot and began dating him. This really hurt me deeply and I wanted to move on as well but the strength was not within me.One night she called me and asked me if I wanted to have dinner and I accepted gladly. I did not know what her plan was but I decided to cooperate. We ate dinner. It was tied where the braid ended with a knot leaving the four stands unbraided for about five inches. These strips had a small tight knot near the ends. These knots were what would cut and cause the most pain. They were extremely vicious in the right hands. Whether I would cause his back to be turned into raw meat remained to be seen.If I kept a vision of Winnie in front of me while administering the punishment, I'm sure his back would tell the story. I paused in my thoughts. I had been. Just as my heart rate is settling to an idle, you demand that I kiss you. I am not going to deny you, minutes later we are making love again. This time we adopt a less frantic pace allowing us to last far longer. Yet the feelings are just as intense, if not more so. I am not thinking about it as much this time, the moment has taken over. The whole afternoon is filled with moments of intense pleasure and feelings followed by moments of euphoria and deep silence. When we talk, we are like friends. The party started when the invited friends arrived, I was given three cards, two were accompanied by a kiss on the cheek, and blushes from the girls giving them.It was great, we had a light meal of sandwiches, chips and sodas there was banter and laughter, teasing and more laughter, easily the best birthday I could remember.Then everything fell apart, Mom left to go into the kitchen, when she returned she was carrying a cake, no problems so far, it had lit candles on it, as you would expect..