.. not the first act in a hardcore gay foursome.Dinner ended pretty late and we had all had a few drinks and the four of us were getting along well. A...ex and I had established a bit of a signal so he could tell me which of the guys he liked better which didn’t really require any signal by the end of dinner. We then went back to the guys room which was just a couple of blocks south.Walking in their hotel room, Alex and his English guy moved to the couch and started making out, I moved with the. She said the both of them hit it off as friends, the troublemakers in their classes – always talking and cracking jokes when they should have been paying attention. Towards the end of the retreat, they had skipped classes altogether and spent the time touring the nearby resort town on foot, sightseeing by day, gourmet dinners in the evening, and make love into the mid hours of the morning. She said she broke every rule she ever had about married men and one-time hook-ups, but the time with him. .. I mean, I thought men were more jealous than women, but I may be wrong." How are they more jealous?" Um, they have to know who their children are for one." Yeah, and wives tend to be considered personal property for another," Margie added."True," Tessa agreed. "In a woman's eyes, men have alternatives and mobility. I think women are inclined to wait for sex. Without a man, a woman is passive and paralyzed, unless she chooses another woman, but that takes us in another direction." Does it?". I mean, come on. I’m married to a beautiful, athletic, smart, rich woman. What guy with a functioning brain wouldn’t want that? Now, just so there are no misconceptions: Do I still find myself in awe of her capabilities, even after knowing her for years? Yes, I do. Does she usually take the lead during sex? Absolutely, and we both like it that way. But do we have one of those weird relationships where she pushes me around or humiliates me or makes me do shit like eat bugs or wear women’s.