He was a little older than me and that was nice too. He took me out to lunch a couple of times and flirted with me and I was tempted to do more. So wh...n I told him I had a trip to Santa Barbara in a couple of weeks he said he was attending the same conference and that we should meet up. I knew what he meant and agreed.The night before I was to fly out I had a big fight with my husband and when I got to Santa Barbara I looked for Shawn. After the first day of the conference I talked to him and. “Relax, Chloe. I’m ... uh ... sorry for flying off the handle at you like that.” I said. “You didn’t deserve it. I’ve been a bit overwhelmed at this all.” I explained. “I’m not trying to make excuses, though I know I am. I’m trying to say sorry.”“Now it’s your turn to relax.” Chloe said in a soft voice. “Joshua, you’re only human. I understand that this is all overwhelming. How often does a person get to get a second chance at all of this?”“You know, you’re right.” I said, letting out a. I kicked off my shoes and sat down at the edge of the hot tub to watch. Cassie climbed up on top of Candace, her perky ass rising out of the water.“Why are you over there?” Cassie asked, looking over her shoulder at me.“Why are you two over there?” I replied.Cassie climbed off of Candace and grabbed her wrist. Cassie rose out of the water and as she yanked on Candace, she slid down lower into the water. I watched as they approached me, Cassie’s naked body on full display as Candace stayed with. WHY? In order to perpetuate the species--of course!So, why not just accept the fact that some men carry that extra female chromosome with them, and that they aren't afraid to exhibit that side of themselves in public? Personally, I use my (strongly) female side as a comfort zone that I visit whenever I can--or when the need arises-due to stress, celebration, or just everyday living. Please don't prejudge me for having the amazing ability to switch sexes at the drop of a hat. I use my feminine.